- Apr 16
We’re Not Meant to Do This Alone
- Courtney Ashworth
Happy Thursday + Jupiter's Day my friend - back to unfold more on the framework I've been sharing on outlining what stewardship looks like, practiced in the belief that there is more than enough for all of us to thrive.
PLENTY gives language to the shift we’re all feeling.
A move away from extractive, transactional leadership, where everything is managed, measured, and optimized.
And toward sustainable, community-based stewardship that is rooted, shared, and whole.
It reflects the era we’re stepping into—the Age of Aquarius—centered on collaboration, collective well-being, and mutual thriving.
I keep thinking about that DJ Khalid song we used to blast in college—“All I do is win, win, win… no matter what.”
But that version of winning is so old. The kind we’re stepping into now isn’t at anyone else’s expense—it’s the kind where everyone rises together.
Which leads into the next piece of this framework. So far we’ve explored Presence, Legacy, and Embodiment—and today, we’re stepping into (N) Network.
Network is the shift from doing life in isolation to recognizing that nothing meaningful grows alone. It’s the relationships, the shared effort, the exchange of support and resources that allow things to take root and thrive. Nature reflects this wisdom in ways we’re only beginning to understand.
This month we launched astronauts into space (don’t get me started), while there is still so much left to explore right here—beneath our soil, within our oceans, across the ecosystems we live inside of.
Studying God’s creation on this earth reveals so much about how we’re meant to live: in connection, in collaboration.
The real world, like nature, is diverse. It isn’t always tidy. Some plants compete for light and nutrients. But at its healthiest, an ecosystem is built on interdependence—where each part contributes to the whole, and life is sustained through connection. This idea is explored beautifully by Robin Wall Kimmerer in Braiding Sweetgrass, a book I wholeheartedly think everyone should read.
Consider the mycelium network—quietly connecting trees and plants, delivering nutrients, resources, even messages, beneath our feet. It’s a reminder that what sustains life is often unseen, relational, and shared.
We all say we want our kids to be “socialized”—but what does that mean if we aren’t modeling it ourselves? What if we asked that question for our own lives first?
What do you want your relationships to feel like?
That’s the kind of community we’re aiming to create—one that's built on intention and supports mutual flourishing.
Inviting Robin Greenfield to speak with our Root and Rise crew gave me a glimpse of how expansive this can be. Robin’s work centers on living in deep alignment with the earth—not just in theory, but in practice. He models taking only what you need and trusting in reciprocity—that when we give, we are also held.
That experience helped clarify something for me and inspired me to put something into place I've had on my heart for a while.
We’re moving toward a donation-based model for our seasonal mama circles—making these spaces more open, accessible, and reflective of real life. Because we are always moving through seasons—times of abundance and times of stretch—and this community is meant to hold the whole of that.
If I’m honest (and wait until next week where we'll dive headfirst into honesty and vulnerability), I’ve always grappled with pricing my offerings. I care deeply about guiding mamas and families toward thriving—that’s at the heart of my work, from coaching to our nature-based homeschool programs.
But it’s hard to assign a fixed value to something that hits differently in all the seasons of life. I have bills—and so do the women I serve. And while the offering remains the same, its impact and accessibility don’t.
Creating a seasonal, donation-based space feels deeply aligned—like a return to trust, to reciprocity, to community.
This season is an invitation into abundance—into plenty. The land stretching, blooming, providing once more. And just like in nature, nothing thrives in isolation. Everything is connected, sustained through relationship.
This time of year has been marked across cultures for generations—when springs begins to merge into summer. Traditional celebrations like Beltane honored the moment - the center point between Spring Equinox and Summer Solstice - and we get to continue to honor this time in our own way that serves us in today's world.
As I’ve been learning to work with the land, I’ve felt drawn to that rhythm—practicing gratitude, setting intention, and find creative ways to support mutual flourishing.
If this resonates, I’d love to invite you to join us for Beltane Bloom: an embodied mama circle—a space to gather, connect, and step into this season together.
Come as you are. Bring a dish to share if you feel called. Contribute what feels aligned.
We’ll meet in the spirit of connection, reciprocity, and plenty. 🤍
2 comments
Thank you. This was a beautiful reminder that I don’t have to do this alone. I have met some beautiful mamas here in FL since I’ve been here and circumstances has made it a bit hard to truly connect but it is something I desire. I plan on doing what I can to connect more with other women even if that’s a phone call. Thanks Courtney. I would have loved to make it to your women’s circle but I will be traveling! I will sure keep an eye out for the next one! Much love!
Thanks for this reflection, Athena! It is so easy to fall into the trap of isolation. Hope to see you at our next circle, safe travels!